It’s a fact of life that when a woman gets into bed with a man, she is prepared for at least one of these three things to happen:
- She will feel self-conscious in some way;
- the experience will be short and kind of sh*tty; and
- she will not finish. (She will not even come close).
When I first explained this depressing reality to a guy a few weeks ago, he was baffled. Completely baffled. S éx had been amazing for him since his senior prom! How is it possible, he wondered, that it’s rare for a woman to experience s éx that’s even mediocre?
In addition to appearing shocked, he also seemed to feel sort of bad. Like he, as both an individual and as a collective representation of all dudes, had failed. So after realizing how genuinely confused this well-intentioned guy was, I decided to ask women what guys can do to actually make s éx better for us.
I surveyed 100 women, ages 19 to 50, about what makes a guy good in bed. I provided the women with a list of 15 actions that guys can do and told them to rank each action as either “not important,” “somewhat important” or “very important” in determining if he’s good in bed or not. Then, at the end of the survey, I asked if they had anything else to add to the list that I may have missed.
And BOY, did the ladies come through. So guys, hopefully these results will help you all kill it in the sack. Click “Continue Reading” to see them