#1: He’s 15
Okay, I don’t mean actually 15. But if you’re a capable adult woman and your boyfriend is emotionally 15, that’s just as bad. That doesn’t mean that he still plays video games or loves Bagel Bites or can’t handle a job more advanced than a paper route.
But if he’s nearing 30 and still has a Bagel Bite breakfast on his way to an unsatisfying job, the odds are slim that he has the emotional depth to handle a long-term relationship.
If you apply any pressure, he may just snap. And you may be better off if you’re sick of playing second fiddle and third wheel to a PS4.