#1:. She will give you no personal space
Things will appear sweet at first, but as time goes by and the next thing you know, she is pooping in your toilet and not flushing well, drinking the mzinga you had preserved for the weekend and asking why you read or work too much.
This will put an instant strain on the ka thing you have. There will be no transition period or getting to know each other while still being able to retreat to separate estates for much-needed alone time.
And that’s just fucked up