#1:. It’s ONLY ‘you’ in the end:
True, when things go haywire, good friends and family may come to your rescue, may offer a shoulder to cry on or even a listening ear which may tend to better things or improve the way you feel.
But the fact remains that the people around you can only alter the intensity of the reaction towards the event- they can’t dominate it or change it; neither can they work things out for you.
If there’s something you need to deal with, it is ONLY you who will have to come to terms with it, and perhaps, face it. Your success, failures, achievements, accidents are only experiences for others , but for you they are instances that define your very being.
For in the end, these aspects only talk about you or about your life.